MINDSET
MAKING RIGHT DECISION THROUGH SETING UP OF MIND
sometimes we fail to achieve our goals because we fail to believe in our self thinking that things are difficult
for us to do thinking that they were created for others and not for us.
This affects our minds and limits our capabilities to engage in new things,
this type of mindset affect our progress in life and sometimes leads to failure.
Types of mindset
We have two types of mindset which determines our destines, growth and the kind of life one lives, most of human behaviours are
modelled along these two types of mindset which usually manifest in our
mind at a pretty young age and affect how we grow/relate to both failure and success and also the human
capacity to seek and acquire happiness.
This two types are:
FIXED MINDSET
This type of mindset assumes that human creativity and intelligence are
limited and can’t grow/change or improve in a notable manner.
This type of people believes that success is generally measured according to our basic intelligence measured upon fixed standards.
Infact this people will aim success at any cost.This type of mindset could be as a result of adverse childhood experience e.g
emotional feelings.
This are people who thinks that:- “failure is the limit to their abilities”,”my abilities are unchanging”,”i can either
do it or not”,”my pottential are predetermined”,when i am frustrated i give up and that they stick to what they know”.
GROWTH MINDSET
This type of mindset is different from fixed mindset since it relishes failure as an opportunity to succeed/further their growth.
This kind of people are the ones who take chances in every new circumstances they encounter,all that they do is trusting in them
selves and do what they want without any limitations and most of the time they succed.
This ones now believes that:-”failure is an opportunity to grow”,
”i can learn to do anything i want”,challenges help me grow”,”my efforts and attitude
determines my abilities,”feedback is constructive”,iam inspired by success of others”,i like trying new things”.
INDIVIDUAL VIEW OF SELF
These now will determine everything about you.
This will evaluate you from other people according to how your mindset is set.
This will either increase you or decrease you in terms of success e.g those with fixed mindet will believe that personal qualities
can not change even without trying ,they quit even without giving a try and for this reason they can never make it in life due to their
mindset while those with growth mindset will try no matter what circumstance that comes along their way and at last they found themselves making it in life.
Its advisable to change the believes from a fixed mindset to growth mindset where one believes that they can get better and accept failure as the bridge to success.
BENEFITS OF SWITCHING MINDSET
Natures development and one improves with time.
Persons with these mindsets are consumed by every situations and face it as a win or a loose situation.
You will have passion for learning and not desire for approval.
CONCLUSSION
There is no need of proving ones great because you can become even better.
No need to disguise shortcommings which can be overcomed.
Good friends are those who challenge you in order to grow skillfully and also mentally.
Never compete ,walk in your own pace .
Believe in your self.
Never say it’s over until it’s over.
Never quit but try.
Never be the same
NB.The power lies in your hands ,think possitive,believe in your self and do as you can.